But Seriously Folks...
A few words about disinformation, propaganda and male-bashing.

by Don Wrege

A quote from Erin Pizzey - founder of first battered women's shelter in England, which led to a movement that spread throughout Europe and the US (and eventually became SafeHouse - which sponsored the Boulder Library art exhibit):

Women are as violent as men, and are more likely to use violence in personal relationships. The reason why their violence has been hidden is because it is hidden violence - behind the closed front door of the home. Women intimidate the family because of their strong central position in the family and are now able to blackmail men, thanks to the bias against men that has been prevalent in the last twenty-five years.

http://www.vix.com/menmag/pizzey.htm
http://www.electromagnetism.demon.co.uk/07089.htm

There is nothing funny about domestic violence. Nor is there anything humorous about the blatant attempt of this exhibit to lay the majority of the blame for domestic violence squarely on males. The facts, if one cares to research them, simply do not support this. The public exhibit, "Art Triumphs Over Violence" at the Boulder Library violently trampled over the truth.

If anyone is truly interested in finding out the truth behind domestic violence and the role women play in it, several links are supplied below.

It should be noted that the art exhibit, which was largely moving, heartfelt and profound, was in my opinion sullied by the obscene violent "Hangin' 'Em Out to Dry," which carried the overall anti-male theme a bit too far with its display of severed penises ( a la Lorena Bobbit). Feminists tend to giggle about it. I don't.

The Free Speech and First Amendment Rights arguments associated with Rowan's decision to illegally remove the offending display aside for a moment, let us examine the evil undertones the misguided decision to foist severed penises upon the public within an anti-male art exhibition (adult and child alike) represents. Whether or not Mr. Robert Rowan's actions in this case were laudable or loathsome, the fact that this exhibit serves as an example of the oft-repeated feminist canards that men are the problem is where I personally get interested.

I'm a big fan of women. I'm a bigger fan of the truth.

It should also be noted that the artist's own statement in response to the removal of the offending exhibit by Mr. Rowan was displayed after the theft and reads in part:

"If you want to attack me or my artwork then confront me with discussion...that is the purpose of this type of art. Debate fuels enlightenment and by stealing personal property on display in a space reserved for art, that was taken away."

Susan Walker - severed penis artist

To date, the artist gave but one brief statement to the press and then steadfastly refused all further requests for interviews or participation in any public interchange of ideas surrounding this controversy. So much for "enlightened discussion."

Furthermore, it may interest the reader to know, that the art exhibit was sponsored by a local chapter of SafeHouse. The SafeHouse movement was originated by one Erin Pizzey, who subsequently denounced the women's shelter movement when it was, in her view, taken over by radical anti-male feminists using SafeHouse as a means to unfairly characterize males as the principal cause of domestic violence (among other activities) and morphed into a socialistic tool to delegitimize and destroy the two-parent household.

The questionable and sometime ridiculous statistics Boulder's SafeHouse puts forth as fact on their website include:

- 95% of all spousal assaults are committed by men.
( http://www.bouldercountysafehouse.org/safehs_dv_stats.html )

This "statistic" is patently false of course, yet, this non-profit promulgates such misinformation as fact in an effort to raise funds and further their cause. A cause which has been corrupted by a base hatred of males and deemed by the originator of the women's shelter movement as set on "destroying the family."

Hang that out to dry.

Don Wrege
Boulder, CO

 

The signs below accompanied the Boulder Library art exhibit.
This is the entire collection. See if you can determine a theme.


In approximately 60% of the cases where
the woman is being abused,
so are the children.

As estimated 3 million children
are exposed to adult-to-adult
domestic violence annually.

Rape is a significant form
of abuse in 54% of
violent marriages.

More than twice as many
women are killed by their
husbands or boyfriends
as are murdered by strangers.

10% of the women who are
divorced or separated compose
75% of the victims of domestic abuse.

30% of battered women are
beaten while they are pregnant.

Abuse of children by the batterer
is more likely when the marriage is
dissolving, the couple has separated,
and the husband/father is highly
committed to continued dominance
and control of the mother and children.

One if five high school girls
has been physically or sexually abused
by a dating partner.

An Ohio study showed the 80%
of violent juvenile offenders
and adult prisoners come from
domestic violence homes.


"Domestic violence is a patter of
coercive control in an intimate
relationship which may be characterized
by physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or
financial abuse or isolating and
controlling behaviors on the part of
the perpetrator." - Susan Schecter

Abuse by husbands and partners
was ranked by the US Surgeon General
as the leading cause of injuries
to women aged 13-44

Forty percent of teenage girls
age 14-17 report knowing
someone their age who has been
hit or beaten by a boyfriend.

Up to 50% of all homeless women
and children are fleeing domestic violence.

"If you want to attack me or my artwork then confront me with discussion...that is the purpose of this type of art. Debate fuels enlightenment and by stealing personal property on display in a space reserved for art, that was taken away."

Oh really? Ms. Walker continues to refuse
to speak with the media. So much for enlightened debate.


A quick glimpse at the other side of the story:

As Erin Pizzey has repeatedly tried to tell people, these women's shelters have become nothing but a bunker to wage war on men and children and to help break up families. All at the expense of the Canadian taxpayer of course!

http://sharedparent.freeyellow.com/990209.pdf

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One of the widely believed myths of our society is that domestic violence is something men do to women. Solid scientific research reveals that domestic violence is something women do to men more frequently than men do it to women. While it is true that men account for most violence outside the home, women instigate most domestic violence and they assault men more frequently and more severely.

http://www.abs-comptech.com/DVMETAht.html

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Consider recent studies on family violence. In 1975, and again in 1985, researchers Murray A. Straus, Ph.D., and Richard J. Gelles, Ph.D., et al., conducted the National Family Violence Survey, one of the largest and most respected studies of family violence ever done in this country. The Survey showed that men are just as likely to be the victims of domestic violence as women.

http://www.eon.anglia.ac.uk/DOVI/articles/article08.htm

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Conventional wisdom says that in cases of domestic violence, men attack and women are victims. But a University of Pittsburgh psychologist believes it may be the other way around- that women hit first, and men hit back because they're provoked.

http://www.abs-comptech.com/domestic.html#Pitt

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What motivates this zealous denial of violence by women against men? Some gender-feminists repeat police statistics over and over in supposed reasoning that these self-selected samples negate the statistics of scientific studies with unbiased representative sampling techniques. Some gender-feminists resort to violent threats in attempt to silence scientific inquiry. These threats and denials stand to deny help to battered men. The actions of these gender-feminists are damnable and dangerous.

http://www.vix.com/pub/men/battery/damnabledenial.html

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"As is evidenced in [the above Table], equal or greater percentages of women than men reported engaging in all types of physical aggression assessed at each assessment period... Interestingly, the lower rates of overall aggression for men were not offset by higher rates of the more severe types of aggression..."

http://www.vix.com/pub/men/battery/studies/oleary-etal.html

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Safe House self definition: "BELIEFS Domestic violence affects women and children of all cultures, classes, races, religions, and sexual orientations. It pervades all of society,.." (emphasis mine)

http://www.safehouse-denver.org/sh.html

Erin Pizzy, founder of the SafeHouse movement:
The final feminist utopia thirty years ago was the idea that there would be no family life, I.e. a father and mother with their children under one roof but rather there would be a mother - a worker unit, the children in the care of the state, and the fathers absent and destroyed. We face the twenty-first century with much of the utopia in place. The only problem is that the vision has become a nightmare and the public are only beginning to wake up. Because it has taken so long, the core of the evil lies deep within our judicial and our caring agencies so righting the injustice will be an immense task. Truly 'it only takes good to do nothing for evil to flourish' if ever there was an example of this - we have it now. erin - Erin Pizzy, founder of the SafeHouse movement.

http://www.fathers.ca/Erin_prizzy_comments.htm


Additional Articles on Battered Husbands


"There are as many violent women as men, but there's a lot of money in hating men, particularly in the United States -- millions of dollars. It isn't a politically good idea to threaten the huge budgets for women's refuges by saying that some of the women who go into them aren't total victims."   

 -- Erin Pizzey, quoted in David Thomas, Men: Not Guilty.



From "As Good As It Gets"

Secretary: "How do you write women so well?"

Writer: "I think of a man. Then I take away reason and accountability."


Study: Women, Men Equally Violent With Partners When Only Partner Is Violent, It's Usually The Woman

7/31/02

DURHAM, N.H. -- A study by the University of New Hampshire of college students says women are as violent as men toward their partners.

The Family Research Laboratory study suggests that when only one partner is violent, it is twice as likely to be the woman.

The survey questioned 1,446 students from: the Universidad Autonoma de Ciudad in Juarez, Mexico; University of Texas at El Paso; Texas Tech; and UNH.

Study author Murray Straus says the findings suggest that programs and policies aimed at preventing intimate partner violence by some women are crucial.

Straus was offering details Tuesday in Montreal at the 15th World Meeting of the International Society for Research on Aggression.

But the findings were disputed by the director of Portsmouth, N.H.-based Sexual Assault Support Services.

The executive director says her first take, after reading this, is that it seems like an oversimplified response to a complex problem.
Copyright 2002 by The Associated Press.