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Seriously Folks... by Don Wrege
There is nothing funny about domestic violence. Nor is there anything humorous about the blatant attempt of this exhibit to lay the majority of the blame for domestic violence squarely on males. The facts, if one cares to research them, simply do not support this. The public exhibit, "Art Triumphs Over Violence" at the Boulder Library violently trampled over the truth. If anyone is truly interested in finding out the truth behind domestic violence and the role women play in it, several links are supplied below. It should be noted that the art exhibit, which was largely moving, heartfelt and profound, was in my opinion sullied by the obscene violent "Hangin' 'Em Out to Dry," which carried the overall anti-male theme a bit too far with its display of severed penises ( a la Lorena Bobbit). Feminists tend to giggle about it. I don't. The Free Speech and First Amendment Rights arguments associated with Rowan's decision to illegally remove the offending display aside for a moment, let us examine the evil undertones the misguided decision to foist severed penises upon the public within an anti-male art exhibition (adult and child alike) represents. Whether or not Mr. Robert Rowan's actions in this case were laudable or loathsome, the fact that this exhibit serves as an example of the oft-repeated feminist canards that men are the problem is where I personally get interested. I'm a big fan of women. I'm a bigger fan of the truth. It should also be noted that the artist's own statement in response to the removal of the offending exhibit by Mr. Rowan was displayed after the theft and reads in part:
To date, the artist gave but one brief statement to the press and then steadfastly refused all further requests for interviews or participation in any public interchange of ideas surrounding this controversy. So much for "enlightened discussion." Furthermore, it may interest the reader to know, that the art exhibit was sponsored by a local chapter of SafeHouse. The SafeHouse movement was originated by one Erin Pizzey, who subsequently denounced the women's shelter movement when it was, in her view, taken over by radical anti-male feminists using SafeHouse as a means to unfairly characterize males as the principal cause of domestic violence (among other activities) and morphed into a socialistic tool to delegitimize and destroy the two-parent household. The questionable and sometime ridiculous statistics Boulder's SafeHouse puts forth as fact on their website include:
This "statistic" is patently false of course, yet, this non-profit promulgates such misinformation as fact in an effort to raise funds and further their cause. A cause which has been corrupted by a base hatred of males and deemed by the originator of the women's shelter movement as set on "destroying the family." Hang that out to dry. Don
Wrege
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30% of battered
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"If you want to attack me or my artwork then confront me with discussion...that is the purpose of this type of art. Debate fuels enlightenment and by stealing personal property on display in a space reserved for art, that was taken away." Oh really? Ms. Walker
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A quick glimpse at the other side of the story:
Additional Articles on Battered Husbands "There are as many violent women as men, but there's a lot of money in hating men, particularly in the United States -- millions of dollars. It isn't a politically good idea to threaten the huge budgets for women's refuges by saying that some of the women who go into them aren't total victims."
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7/31/02
DURHAM, N.H. -- A study by the University of New Hampshire of college students says women are as violent as men toward their partners.
The Family Research Laboratory study suggests that when only one partner is violent, it is twice as likely to be the woman.
The survey questioned 1,446 students from: the Universidad Autonoma de Ciudad in Juarez, Mexico; University of Texas at El Paso; Texas Tech; and UNH.
Study author Murray Straus says the findings suggest that programs and policies aimed at preventing intimate partner violence by some women are crucial.
Straus was offering details Tuesday in Montreal at the 15th World Meeting of the International Society for Research on Aggression.
But the findings were disputed by the director of Portsmouth, N.H.-based Sexual Assault Support Services.
The executive director says her first take, after reading this, is that it seems like an oversimplified response to a complex problem.
Copyright 2002 by The Associated Press.